Today’s Reading: Lamentations 1-3; Ps 137

Beside the rivers of Babylon, we sat and wept
as we thought of Jerusalem.
We put away our harps,
hanging them on the branches of poplar trees.
For our captors demanded a song from us.
Our tormentors insisted on a joyful hymn:
“Sing us one of those songs of Jerusalem!”
But how can we sing the songs of the Lord
while in a pagan land? – Psalm 137:1-4

God’s people grieved while in exile; they longed for their homeland. And in the midst of their grief, they wondered if God was still listening to their prayers. Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever gone through a time when you wondered if God was even listening anymore?

“And though I cry and shout, he has shut out my prayers.” – Lamentations 3:8

After reading 1 & 2 Samuel, 1 & 2 Kings and 1 & 2 Chronicles, then listening to the prophets through whom God spoke to His people, we have new context to the book of Lamentations. Using poetry, Jeremiah mourned the loss of what Jerusalem used to be. He wept over the conditions of those who had been left behind as they starved behind the walls that were built to protect them. It would have been better for them to be captured and exiled than to remain there to watch what Jerusalem had become and to watch her children begging for food.

The Lord in his anger has cast a dark shadow over beautiful Jerusalem.
The fairest of Israel’s cities lies in the dust, thrown down from the heights of heaven.
In his day of anger, the Lord has shown no mercy even to his Temple… – Lamentations 2:1

As we read the grief expressed in the book of Lamentations, many of us can relate to a time when we were hurting over a loss of some kind. Perhaps you are in the midst of your grief right now. Most likely, all of us have lost someone we loved over the last five years. In 2021, our family sat by my father’s bedside as he took his last breath. I have watched a friend grieve the loss of her husband over this last year. Loss is a natural part of life, but goodbyes are hard and grief can be debilitating.

“Everything I had hoped for from the Lord is lost!” – Lamentations 3:18

We have all experienced loss and grief in our life and we have all watched others around us suffer. But in the midst of utter sorrow, we have also experienced the mercy of our wonderful Lord and Savior. When grief threatens to overwhelm us, God steps in and we experience a moment of hope. We serve a God who is faithful and never abandons us, even if it feels like that at times.

“I will never forget this awful time, as I grieve over my loss.
Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this:
The faithful love of the Lord never ends!
His mercies never cease.
Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning.
I say to myself, ‘The Lord is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!’
The Lord is good to those who depend on him, to those who search for him.
So it is good to wait quietly for salvation from the Lord.” – Lamentations 3:20-26

I do not know everything that is going on in the lives of those who will share my morning coffee with me today. You might be in the midst of your grief or you may be seeking healing from past hurts. My prayer is that God will use these verses to give you hope and remind you that He is faithful.

For NO ONE is abandoned by the Lord forever.
Though he brings grief, he also shows compassion because of the greatness of his unfailing love…
Then why should we, mere humans, complain when we are punished for our sins?
Instead, let us test and examine our ways.
Let us turn back to the Lord.
Let us lift our hearts and hands to God in heaven and say,
“We have sinned and rebelled, and you have not forgiven us…”
My tears flow endlessly; they will not stop until the Lord looks down from heaven and sees.
My heart is breaking…
But I call on your name, Lord, from deep within the pit.
You heard me when I cried, “Listen to my pleading! Hear my cry for help!”
Yes, you came when I called; you told me, “Do not fear.” – Lamentations 3:31-32,39-42,49-51a,55-57

Sometimes our present suffering seems more real than the hope of our salvation — the possibility that God will step in and rescue us from our pain. Remember God loves you. Hold on to the fact that God is faithful. If you seek Him, you will find Him. If you pray to Him, you will be heard. If you cry out to Him, He will hold you. God has not abandoned you. He is with you.

Father God, I pray for the one who is sharing my morning coffee with me this morning who is overwhelmed with grief. I pray that you will make your presence known in a tangible way today. May their cries reach your ears, and may they hear your gentle response. May they know that you have not abandoned them and that your love is unfailing. Amen.