Today’s Reading: Matthew 7:1-6

“Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged.” – Matthew 7:1-2

There were times when Jesus was very clear in his teaching — direct and to the point. He would then use an illustration or word picture to help us understand what he was saying, and then he would repeat the directions again. This is one of those passages when Jesus spoke clearly and directly. Do not judge. Do not look at someone else and cast judgment on them.

God alone, who gave the law, is the Judge. He alone has the power to save or to destroy. So what right do you have to judge your neighbor? – James 4:12

So why, then, do we judge? Why do we allow our opinions of someone else’s behavior to influence the way in which we respond to them? How often do we see the situation someone else is in and wonder why they are not doing something to get themselves out? Why is it that we come up with solutions to other people’s problems so much easier than we come up with solutions to our own?

WHEN YOU CAN’T SEE PAST THE SIN IN ORDER TO LOVE THE SINNER

There seems to be this lack of patience for those who have not yet surrendered to the life God is calling them to live. If we are not responding to the Holy Spirit in our interactions, we can easily say something to push them farther away from God, while He is actively drawing them to Himself. Words are powerful and can make a huge difference in someone’s life, positive and negative. How we choose to use the power of speech can improve someone’s experience or weigh them down with discouragement.

When it is someone else who has gotten themselves into a situation, the solution seems so easy and obvious to us, yet they do not need us to yell the obvious from the sidelines. They are well aware of the situation they are in. What they need is encouragement and love; what they need is mercy.

Our theme this year for Living Alternatives Pregnancy Resource Center has been MOMENTS OF MERCY. We made a decision at the beginning of the year to dive deep into the meaning of mercy, and allow God to teach us what it really means to respond to the needs of others with mercy. What does it look like to see beyond the mistakes someone has made in order to see the potential of who God is calling them to be? What does it look like for my actions to reflect the character of Jesus rather than my own humanity?

“And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye when you have a log in your own? How can you think of saying to your friend, ‘Let me help you get rid of that speck in your own eye,’ when you can’t see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see enough to deal with the speck in your friend’s eye.” – Matthew 7:3-5

Jesus is NOT saying that we shouldn’t help each other, or that we should only worry about ourselves. No, he is commanding us to stop judging others for the help that they need. We need to first examine our own situations. When we do this, we will most likely see that we, too, are not perfect. We make mistakes and get ourselves into situations we should not be in, just like others around us. And sometimes our biggest struggle is that someone else’s sin is uncomfortably reminding us of our own regret, allowing shame to once more crowd in and steal our joy. Instead of allowing our past sins to draw us towards compassion, we embrace judgment as a way of avoiding the reminder of our own unrighteousness.

WHEN YOU CAN’T SEE PAST THE LOG IN YOUR OWN EYE

We are all sinners in need of a Savior. It is clear that Jesus is pointing out the absurdity of our judgment of others when we are not without sin ourselves. Self-righteousness says I’m better than you and I have the right to tell you what you are doing wrong, but Jesus points to this attitude and calls it hypocrisy. Self-condemnation says I can’t see past my own sin in order to see the forgiveness that is waiting for both me and you on the other side.

As we walk this faith journey, it helps to have friends in our lives who help keep us accountable; it helps to have a friend point out our bad attitude or give us advice on the decisions we are making. Sometimes we intentionally give someone permission to point out sin in our life, but that does not give us permission to point out sin in the lives of unbelievers. In fact, we shouldn’t be surprised when sinners sin. Until they choose to let God do a transforming work in their heart, they will continue to produce sin from their sinful heart.

“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” – Matthew 7:6

We need to reach out and help those around us, loving them the way we would want to be loved (there’s that Golden Rule again). Jesus is not saying to ignore those who are struggling with situations or temptations. Jesus wants us to reach out in love to one another, not sit in judgment of each other.

What we say to others or about other people FLOWS FROM WHAT IS IN OUR HEART (Luke 6:43-45). A good person produces good things from their heart; an evil person produces evil things. This is good to remember the next time I am in the mood to gossip or to say something critical about someone else. Let’s use our words to make a positive difference in someone else’s day.

Lord, please forgive me for the evil things that have spilled out of my mouth. Forgive me for my criticism of others. Forgive me for my gossiping tongue. Lord, my desire is to help others. Please take this log out of my own eye so that I can reach out to others with a pure heart, extending to them a moment of mercy. Amen.